

Carl and I had a discussion this week about why I was not on Facebook. I am not necessarily against Facebook, I just can't see why it would improve my life to be on it.
At first, I didn't want to sign up because I don't like to fill out those profiles online. Not because of the time it takes, but because I don't like to describe myself by filling out a few boxes and have someone "understand who I am" because of them. Another compelling reason not to join (originally MySpace) was because I was a teacher and it was something all the high school kids were really into. I just couldn't get caught up in something like that.
I would hear friends talking about people they found on FB and what was going on in their lives. Other friends wanted to share pics they had added to their page. Some suggested that the best way to get a hold of so-and-so was to 'facebook them'. None of these things were persuasive enough for me to feel the need to sign up.
Carl isn't a super-active user of Facebook but has an account and uses it sometimes. He said that one of the reasons he likes FB is being able to share pictures. To which I reply, that is the exact reason that I started a blog. I feel like the friends and family who care check my blog so I should be covered there.
One last time, I am not against Facebook - I'm just not looking for one more thing to check, add to, and worry about. I have no void to fill, I have no trouble filling my time on the Internet, and I feel like I generally know what my friends are up to.
At the end of the conversation Carl said he had come to a conclusion. Before he could even say his theory about why I didn't like FB, I finished his sentence. I have spent so much time and energy in my life nurturing friendships, writing letters, remembering birthdays, and keeping in touch with people that to have Facebook come along and make it so
easy for everyone to do the same is kind of a slap in the face. Although that thought had never occurred to me before, I don't disagree.
End Result: My new year's resolution is to get on Facebook. I have a year to think about it. It may or may not happen but if it does - will you be my friend?
And Twitter...who even knows what that is anyway?